The guy in front of you cuts you off, you flick him off and ride his tail. What are you fighting for?
Your day hasn't gone to plan, your late for your appointment and that one guy was rude. Who are you fighting?
You've lost control of the situation and have nothing left to do but be angry. Why?
When people disrespect you, treat you like a fool, take advantage of you, is your anger justified?
In all of these situations, what is your role? You are one of the main actors in each of these situations, so how are you to act? Surely we would not be surprised if you retaliated, put up a good fight and vented your anger.
It might be worth looking, really deeply, what exactly it is that we are fighting for. If you fight for this thing, whatever it is, how does that play out if you continue to put up a fight? Where does the fight end? What does our family look like if everyone fights for this thing? What about our community and our schools?
What are you fighting for?