Gravity is very interesting. We are all familiar with it, we learned how to operate within its bounds and even to use it to our advantage to do amazing things.
But what about the gravity of our decisions, actions and responsibilities? Those have a lot of gravity, gravity that gives a lot of weight to our lives. Weight that we often don't know how to deal with.
The interesting thing about gravity is that it always starts off with a fight and a fall. We have to fight to get up. We need to push and finagle and adapt. We need to be persistent. And then we fall. The falling is inevitable really. We may have succeeded in getting up but we still need to learn how to maintain that posture and even more so how to maintain it amidst movement and change.
But we persist. The falling provides us with the tools to learn and we continue to examine and analyze until we succeed. But the success doesn't stop there, once standing we move forward, we take steps and learn to hop and skip and roller skate and even fly. We have actually learned to fly, even with gravity, not despite it.
So let's go back to the gravity of our decisions, actions and responsibilities.
Our initial reaction is to feel the heaviness of our situation. We are often overwhelmed by the weight of our life, wishing that somehow it would all change and we could soar through the sky carefree and without any problems or conflict. But it is important to realize that we are the weight. That heaviness, it is us. So we need to fight to pick ourselves up. Or push ourselves up I suppose.
We will fall.
But recognize the problems and conflicts for what they are- learning opportunities. Opportunities to adjust our posture. Opportunities to find our balance. Opportunities to make the right correction at the right time.
As we learn to stand with dignity and confidence, we can then learn to step forward with kindness and generosity. As those develop momentum we can run with insight and develop the endurance it takes to accomplish great feats, great feats for ourselves and great feats for others.
We may even learn to fly. Fly even amidst problems and conflict, amidst doubt and the impossibility of doing so because of the heaviness of our situation. We learn to fly on the wings of skillful means and wisdom. We can build those.
But first we need to learn to stand.