How many new students want to go deep?
It is gratifying to get new faces in the door. To have new energy in the room. To see light bulbs turn on, connections built, impact made. But how many of those people keep digging for more?
Some come, get what they are looking for and go on their way.
Some come, build a strong connection and stick around for a long time. Years later they still ask the same questions, still have the same hangups.
Some come, and they come with a blaze. They eat up all they can, put in a huge amount of effort and energy, make significant contributions and build up a lot of trust and respect. And then they burn out and disappear.
Some come, and they put in the time and energy. They contribute, their questions evolve and become more nuanced, they keep digging. They keep showing up, year after year. Year after year, they become more integrated, take on more responsibility, are more generous and more patient. Their understanding deepens, and with depth comes breadth and subtlety. Connections are made, insight drawn out. They share, lift people up and make an impact on those around them.
Not every student can plumb the depths. Some don't have the capacity, some don't have the time, some just aren't in it for those reasons.
If you're lucky, you will find a few who go deep.